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THE PAUSE from Jason and Ingo

After 19 incredible years of teaching, travelling, and transforming lives through Tantra4GayMen, we are entering what we’re calling The Pause. From January 2026, we’ll be stepping back from all programming to rest, reflect, and feel into what might come next.

The Pause — A Message from Us, Jason & Ingo

After nearly 20 years of this wild, beautiful, life-changing journey with Tantra4GayMen, we’re entering a new chapter we’re calling The Pause. From January 2026, we’ll be stepping back from all programming — no retreats, no weekends, no events — to give ourselves the space to rest, to reconnect, and to feel into what the future might want to become.

We’ve been so blessed to teach across the world — from Thailand to Mexico, from New York to Glastonbury — and to witness thousands of you in your deepest bliss, transformation, joy, and truth. It’s been breathtaking, humbling, and the honour of our lives. But now, after years of creating and holding space, we know it’s time for our own nourishment, stillness, and reconnection with ourselves.

We still have three final events in 2025 — the TantraLove Festival in August, a London weekend, and our last retreat, the Divinity of Bliss in November. If you’ve been meaning to join us, now is your moment.

We love you. We thank you. And we ask for your blessing as we take this step. You’ve been our prayer for a world where men can love men freely, openly, and ecstatically — and it’s been nothing short of magic.

With all our love,
Jason & Ingo

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